LOVE LETTER OF AN UNBREAKABLE HEART

The more you love a person, the greater is the risk of getting hurt.
For we are most sensitive to the people we love.
It is like every detail counts.
Every small gesture would make us smile.
Every joke would make us giggle.
Every small disappointment would pain us.
Every minute apart would make us miss them.
Ever time together would leave that little spark of joy in our hearts.

When you open yourself to someone, when you make yourself vulnerable to him,
that is only when I guess that you fully let him love you,
and you fully love him in return.
That risk, that fall, that is the best part of loving.
Not all risks may end up in favor of you though,
but it will all be worth it in the end.
It is not just being able to say that you truly loved,
nor that you have given your best, that you gave it what you can.
It is not just making the other person feel cherished and happy.
It is the magic of finding that part of yourself that is capable of doing so,
discovering that you have it in you.
You may surprise yourself even on how much you could really give,
or to what extent you would be willing to go to and how brave you can actually be.

It is but a pity how some people pass on that opportunity to share themselves to someone whom they love and loves them.
It is like it is there, yet then they were too scared to take it.
Yes, it is true that we should be careful, we should be wise,
but whether it fails or not, what difference does it make if you had not taken that leap of faith.
If you had not trusted your heart in what it is supposed to do,
if you had not allowed yourself to that magic,
if you kept on fighting it, instead of fighting for it,
would it not even hurt more?

We all love, we all will , we all must.
And one time or another, we will all face pain.
And yes, your heart may seem broken for awhile, 
but the beauty of it is that your heart will always learn how to cope up,
it will re-learn to be okay, for it is in fact unbreakable.
And in the end, it is how much you loved that will matter more,
it is how happy you've been.
The pain, the hurt when it fails, through time, it will go away.
But that strength, that wisdom and that self-discovery you've gained will always stay with you.
It is a win-win scenario all the time.
So yeah, risk up, take that chance, do yourself a favor, stop being scared and just love. <3

STARFISH IN MY CHEST

I have a starfish in my chest. 

Beyond being brainless dumb like Patrick,
(yes, they literally don't have brains)
and having such a distinctive shape, sea stars are famous for their ability to regenerate. 
Awesome right?
They can grow their damaged parts back and they can even shed limbs as a means of defense.
Just like the one in my chest.

She's been shattered quite a lot. 
From time to time, she has lost pieces of herself--
partly coz she's a dork, she's brainless anyway. 
She kinda finds it difficult to be trained often times, she hardly ever learns. 
So yeah, she hurts herself every now and then, shedding fragments of her.
At times too painful even, like a huge slab of her was gone, that she thinks she couldn't bear it through.

Happens mostly after letting someone in, after sharing herself, after giving a part of her to them-- and then being left behind.
They walk away with a part of her, leaving her altered, diminished. 
It's not a smooth task to grow back, it takes times, takes prowess, yet just like the star that she is, she always regenerates. 
And not only that-- she always shines. <3

CHEATING 101 Volume II

DEAR UNFAITHFUL GUYS and CHEATING HUSBANDS,

You are dating another girl even when you are committed to someone else.
You go out and have a relationship with another woman even when you are a married man with kids.
The worst thing is that (sometimes) you ploy the mistress, that other woman, into your sick sick past time.
She is now branded a bitch, a scar in the society because of your dirty trickery.
You are the reason that these two girls have sleepless nights crying.
You are the reason for their pain.
You are the wrecker of your own family and relationships.
You are the destroyer of your own home and affairs.

And every day and night you go through your nasty scheme,
asking God not to make the girls know,
so you can keep both and avoid making a choice,
and end up losing either one or both (hopefully).
You pray for their patience, love and ignorance.
You wouldn't want them to know.
But fate has a way of catching up on every one of us.
In time, they will see that you are nothing but a treacherous act and a hideous betrayer.
And though you have succeeded in crushing the love and care of these women,
who have trusted their hearts in you,
though you have temporarily ravaged them,
know that they will continue to rise without you-- despite of you.

For they know you are nothing,
and they won't feel anything towards you.
No, not even hatred.
They'll get past hating you,
coz you won't deserve any part of their hearts.
Not even the darkest side of it,
not even their lowest emotions.
And you will just be nothing to these women,
to the bitchy other woman and to the martyr wife,
that the world labeled them to be.

From an FB post:

This one goes for all the BITCHES, MISTRESSES, MAKIKIRENG BABAE NA SALOT di lang sa lipunan but most importantly SALOT sa mga PAGSASAMA ng mag-asawa/mag-partner in short pesteng sumisira sa isang pamilya... kaya dapat sa inyo pati na rin sa mga lalakeng pumapatol sa inyo ay INA-ASINAN at WINIWISIKAN NG MURIATIC ACID!

THIS IS FOR THE LADIES: 

You are dating a married man with kids,
you are the reason his wife sleeps late at night,
waiting for him to come home late,
you are the reason his wife cries every night,
you are the reason he does not come home to his family,
you are the reason he does not take care of his family,
you are the reason he does not eat at home anymore, 
You are the reason he has not touched his wife fro months, 
Yet everyday and night you kneel down and pray to God 
to give you a faithful husband when you are making another woman's husband unfaithful.
You pray for a caring and loving man 
when you have succeeded in diverting the LOVE and care of another woman's husband.
You pray for a good home when you are destroying another woman's home.

Ask yourself this question:
"WITH THIS KIND OF ATTITUDE OF MINE,
WILL GOD GRANT MY REQUEST ?"
WILL I BE HAPPY WHEN I GET MARRIED? 

To me I know my God does not grant selfish request and prayers, (James 4:3)
"God said in His word that we should do unto others, that which we will want them to do to us (Matthew 7:12).

DEAR LADIES, Wake up, wise up, grow up and say NO to sugar daddies, do not be deceived by money and material things, you have nothing to benefit, for everything is VANITY upon VANITY! (Ecclesiastes 1:2) THINK ABOUT IT.
What goes around comes back around!


CHEATING 101 Volume I
http://missglitchee.blogspot.com/2013/05/cheating-101.html